
When Durham, NC held their last election in 2005, 17 people ran for mayor, 8 of them had criminal records. This news was reported by the Raleigh News & Observer. Why is this important? Well, the criminal candidates in Durham were by and large scam artists, child molesters and one even had a fictitious name. Isn't that important? Shouldn't a candidate's personal history be an important part of their candidacy?
If a candidate is convicted of assault or DWI, shouldn't that be an important factor in determining whether or not you vote for a particular person or not? Candidates criminal history, past, present, or future transgressions of the law tell us exactly who is really running for office. Candidates talk a lot about family values, but suppose your candidate, the great proponent of family values, has had a domestic violence protective order issued against him? Wouldn't that, shouldn't that be at the very least cause for concern?
Suppose Katherine Moore would have blown a .18, twice the legal limit and have been convicted of DWI, wouldn't that have been nails to her coffin? Wasn't that the whole point of arresting her in the first place? But suppose you have a write in candidate who was convicted of DWI?
Now I'm not saying these people are to be shunned or run out of town, I'm saying when you have a choice, wouldn't it be prudent to investigate those with a questionable background? I'm sure all these people who have various "lapses in judgment" with the law are good people ... to someone. I mean isn't it possible that some people, family, Nurse Anesthetists, Satan, think Thomas Wright is a good guy?
Hey, I've made my share of poor judgment calls, none I'm willing to admit, but then I'm not running for office, maybe if I did run for office I'd come right out up front and admit my sins. Then again maybe I'd be foolish enough to think nobody would notice...or care.
There is something to those who admit their sins, Jesus said admit your sins and you are forgiven. So when I watched Marion Jones tearfully admit her sins today I felt so much sorrow for her because I know Marion. I've worked with her several times. I worked with her on a Nike commercial where she played a DJ calling on fellow athletes to stop committing crimes, she said that they OWED their fans that much. Marion knows children, the naive kids who for some reason or another worship these athletes and with all the crimes of assaults, drunk driving, dope.... no wonder high school athletics is no different than the programs in professional sports.
In an effort to discover who had what skeleton in which closet we have found that several candidates in New Hanover County have criminal records, a few of them have committed serious offenses, serious enough to warrant concern. Most however have nothing to be embarrassed about.
Wilmington's Candidates for Mayor
Bill Saffo - traffic offenses
Justin Lanasa - convicted of injury to real property along with a judge's order not to assault the victim. Lanasa made claim he was out of town during the incident and could not have caused the $20 damage to a property line fence.
Harper Peterson - a traffic violation
Wilmington's Candidates for Council
Jeff Kohl- forgot to check on the pressure of his boat's fire extinguisher
Carolina Beach Write-in Candidate for Mayor
Ray Rothrock a quick look his record revealed a conviction of DWI in 2005
Carolina Beach Candidate for Council
Michael Kopitopoulous - sold beer by mistake to someone who was underage and received a prayer for judgement for his mistake
Kure Beach Candidate
Barry Nelder- drunk driving in 1987, Nelder reported that the incident sobered him up and he has not had a drink in nearly 20 years.
Wrightsville Beach Candidates for Town Board of Aldermen
Chandler Madray- arrested in 1998 for urinating in public and drinking in public, among other misdemeanors
Bill Blair- forgot to count his life vests on his boat and was charged accordingly
But there are two candidates whose personal criminal history stand out as being in need of serious explanation.
Wrightsville Beach candidate for Alderman, Brent Futch has a long history of writing bad checks, these aren't life sustaining needs these checks were written for these are checks for thousands of dollars spanning several years. He has even been on probation because of these convictions. Futch also has charges of Hit and Run, No Insurance, Trespassing, DWI and giving or selling alcohol to an underage person. I was unable to reach Mr. Futch with two separate phone calls to the number listed with the Board of Elections. These calls were made the Friday and Saturday prior to this posting. (UPDATE TO STORY: In an article with the Lumina News Futch denies being convicted of giving or selling alcohol to a minor. My notes show a conviction in 1992. I will recheck my research when I am able to do so.) (UPDATE TO STORY: MORE UPDATES - In an email from Mr. Futch, he claims he has a certified copy of his criminal record showing no convictions for selling or giving alcohol to a minor. )
The prize for the most embarrassing criminal history has to go to Carolina Beach candidate for Mayor, current Mayor Pro-Tem, Alan Gilbert who had been convicted of a 1993 assault on a female but has also been the recipient of a domestic violence restraining order in a dispute that, in the victim's own handwriting, stated that she was prevented from leaving the house and that he ripped the phone off the wall when she attempted to call 911. The 1997 Domestic Violence Civil Order also states that Councilman and Mayor Pro-Tem Gilbert had committed a similar, previous act of violence against the same woman in an unreported event prior to 1997.
How do you defend against such things in a political climate where previous sins not only come back to haunt you, but are used as weapons against you. So why risk such exposure and potential for embarrassment when you, better than anyone, know what evil lurks behind closed doors? Perhaps it is self righteousness, perhaps the offenders are comfortable knowing that Jesus and all who love them have forgiven them. I mean it's not like they were caught yesterday in a men's bathroom with their pants down around their ankles. But it is on their "permanent record".
I guess let he who is without sin cast the first pitch, batter up!
I heard your show today and was wondering why you didn't mention the other candidates. I mean Pat DeLair just went bankrupt and you never said a word about that.
Posted by: Amber K | October 06, 2007 at 10:03 PM
Ms. Delair's bankruptcy is not a crime. The report had to do with the violation of the law.
I did look into Ms. Delair's criminal background and found nothing to report.
Posted by: Tre Benson | October 07, 2007 at 01:35 PM
Dear Tre: Remember what John Wayne's character said in "The Cowboys"? "I don't necessarily hold prison against a man... but I can't stand a liar!" I suppose that's in line with what Governeur Morris, a Founding Father, once said. "The exercise of authority depends on personal character." Occasional acts of stupidity are only to be expected, even in the best of us. Rank criminality is something else entirely! We've lowered the bar on character to such a degree that you can't help but wonder how many "Durhams" or "District of Columbias" there are right now.
Posted by: Steven Mark Pilling | October 07, 2007 at 08:59 PM
I THINK THAT MR. GILBERT SHOULD RESIGN AS MAYOR PRO-TEM AT ONCE. HE SHOULD ALSO NOT RUN FOR THE MAYOR. HE SHOULD ALSO RESIGN ALL HIS POSTS.
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 05:02 PM
What a blemish on carolina beach. Mr. gilbert give it up. move on, Don't bring the beach down to your level. you are a digrace to us all.
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 05:06 PM
I think some of these crimes are forgivable...but assault on a female and domestic violence??? I draw the line there. What kind of role model is he for children?? I second that he is not the man for the job...Alan Gilbert should withdraw from the race.
Posted by: Alison | October 08, 2007 at 05:09 PM
Stunning is all I have to say and how can Alan Gilbert preach so much about family values..........Please withdraw from the Mayor's race as you have deceived us.
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 05:53 PM
Mr. Gilbert is a slick talker and now we know the truth about him. If he will cover this up, there is no limit to what he may do and I do not want him as my mayor. Go home please and stay there and resign as mayor pro tem. His favorite word is clarity and now I am very clear about his lack of character!!
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 07:47 PM
For the three years that Alan Gilbert has stuck his name out to the public as to how he cares about family values and the future of our children, what a disgrace this makes us all feel about the trust that was given to him. He is an embarrassment to true caring people for children. How can he say that he could lead our town or any town when he can't even lead his own life in the manner that Christ would want him to. I sincerely pray that he can be saved and that one day he will turn his life around. People say that years have passed, but this is a problem that began years ago and without public committment and an effort to find help for these or this problem in his personal background takes years to overcome. No where has it been found that he has sought that help that we all need from time to time and his attitude shows the truth as to how he personally perceives his dilemmas he may or may not be in.
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 07:58 PM
I have known Alan for 5 years and think the man has all the qualitiesneeded to work as mayor. We have no idea what took place to have him with such a reocrd. When is someone held acountable of a crimek that took place 10 years ago? I say the proof is that the man has a good family who loves him and many loyal friends that stand with him and will see him elected Mayor to protect this beach from being strip mined for its natural resources.
Posted by: Patrick | October 08, 2007 at 09:58 PM
the proof you are looking for my be at the blackhorn bar and grill. if he has changed so much than why was he kicked out of the bar for trying to start a fight. I will tell you, HE STILL HAS ISSUES!!!!!!!
It takes people like you to allow people like him to continue his slick talk. Wake and smell what you are shoveling.
Posted by: | October 08, 2007 at 11:33 PM
Blackhorn are you kidding that ws two years ago, I was there and some drunk Mexican who was over served was messing with his wife and the staff and owners were too drunk to throw anyone out. They left on their own.
Posted by: Jeff | October 09, 2007 at 06:47 AM
Wake up people, Mr. Gilbert's past is just that. This is a set-up by David and Diane Lawn, Michelle and George Connette, Dan Wilcox candidate, Joel Macon candidate. They are the greedy ones that were going to make abunch of money off of now bankrupt Arcadius. They are evil and bitter. Mr. Gilbert is the best thing that has happened to Carolina Beach in a long time. Mr. Gilbert has a wonderful family and is serving the people.
Posted by: Jeff | October 09, 2007 at 06:54 AM
You want to expose Mr. Gilbert for something years ago, why not talk about Joel Macon using his position with the state to land he and his partner Dan Wilcox jobs. These two are stealing from condo owners with the help of Ann Bowman and Coastwalk Realty. Why not look at these guys for ripping off the beach?
Posted by: Jeff | October 09, 2007 at 07:01 AM
I know some of Dan Wilcox's (running for council) girl friends, they say Dan is a violent drunk. Let's give them a call and see what they have to say. At least Mr. Gilbert is happily married. Joel Macon left his wife for another woman after she got back from the war in Iraq and only after spending all the money she made.
Posted by: Jeff | October 09, 2007 at 07:08 AM
1st Thing Blackhorn has been opened since 01/06. Thats a year and a half. 2nd Thing is that Mr Gilbert is a selfish individual. He has no business running for council, let alone to run for mayor. Alan is a nice person, but has no business in office. What he is doing subjecting his family to the spotlight is disgusting. His kids will be picked on in school, everyone will look at him and his wife differently. All for what to prove something.
If we as voters of Carolina Beach do elect Alan then we are saying, "We don't care about peoples past. Come on down to CB where you can live here just 4 years and get into office with any past."
Domestic Violence is terrible and what he did was intimidate his poor wife when she had there child, (there oldest kid), in her arms. Then he riped the phone out of the wall so she couldn't call for help. Know if people think that is a person that should be mayor then maybe all the good people of CB should leave.
10 Years ago is not that long!
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 07:30 AM
1st Thing Blackhorn has been opened since 01/06. Thats a year and a half. 2nd Thing is that Mr Gilbert is a selfish individual. He has no business running for council, let alone to run for mayor. Alan is a nice person, but has no business in office. What he is doing subjecting his family to the spotlight is disgusting. His kids will be picked on in school, everyone will look at him and his wife differently. All for what to prove something.
If we as voters of Carolina Beach do elect Alan then we are saying, "We don't care about peoples past. Come on down to CB where you can live here just 4 years and get into office with any past."
Domestic Violence is terrible and what he did was intimidate his poor wife when she had there child, (there oldest kid), in her arms. Then he riped the phone out of the wall so she couldn't call for help. Know if people think that is a person that should be mayor then maybe all the good people of CB should leave.
10 Years ago is not that long!
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 07:30 AM
Jeff Why are you bringing other prople into this? I know, to bring them down to alan's level! well don't bother. alan is what he is, there's proof, however the statements you are making about the others,there is no proof. this makes you no better than alan. maybe you are one of the same. maybe you are alan. maybe not, but than again maybe you are. You seem to have a lot of anger too! Maybe you you both need help.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 09:22 AM
Jeff if Mr. gilbert is the best thing that has happened to carolina beach, what does that say for carolina beach? You need to re-think your way of thinking. I think all battered women would want you to do just that.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 09:30 AM
jeff, i see you have the same family values as mr. gilbert's. hanging out in bars late at night and early in the morning, "wow" what values. do you have his temperment as well? what are his children doing this time of night or morning? oh well i guess family values needs an overhaul.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 10:04 AM
Ever woman needs to show up at Town Hall tonight and demand Mr. Gilbert resign his positions. Any woman that cast a vote for Alan Gilbert is a traitor to the female race. He made a statement he has been married 13 years and he knows that is a lie. What other lies is he telling.
Alan why don't you tell the whole truth? When were you and your wife really married? If you have been married 13 years, prove it. Show everyone your true family values.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 11:22 AM
Boy, I think there are a lot of nasty, nasty people in CB (i.e., referring to the above negative comments) that are so quick to pass judgment (without knowing the facts). Moreover, numerous ugly people manipulate and twist things to position what they want to project out of the alleged situation. As the old saying goes, two wrongs don't make it right. I would hope that there are more of you willing to take the high road!!
As Americans, we know the amount of hatred and ill will that exists for us in other countries. If we can't get along in our little town in big America and be respectful towards one another, how can we expect other countries to control their own hateful, vengeful terrorists?
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 02:57 PM
to the lady who stated "I think there are a lot of nasty, nasty people in CB"....Maybe you missed the part of the report that said CONVICTED. I think you need to go grab a dictionary and look the word up..seems you need a little clarification on the word and it’s definition.
Terrorism in America has NOTHING to do with this situation. This man should be held accountable or what he has done. Please do everyone a favor and really think about what you are commenting on…You make yourself sound pretty ignorant.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 03:24 PM
I'm taking the high road...lets let the voters decide what road you and the others have taken.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 03:58 PM
I think the female voter will decide what road we all will take.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 04:12 PM
Jeff, here are the Top Ten Reasons Why You Have No Idea What Your Talking About.
1) As previously stated we have not been open for more than 1.5 years
2) I was there that evening and witnessed how inebriated Alan was that night.
3) Myself, and the other owners, left at approx 1:15am, leaving Gilbert behind.
4) The "Mexican" was Caucasion. His name was Jeremy.
5) The manager-on-duty at the time is now part of the NHC Sheriff's Department and I trust his explaination of the story over all others.
6) Alan had to be exited because he was threatening, belligerent, and attempting to escalate the situation. His use of anti-Mexican verbage had also rallied a few actually of that descent against him.
7) Jeremy was thrown out with Alan, and banned for his complimentary comment on Alan's wife's rear end.
8) When outside, Alan identified himself as a Town Councilman, and stated, "I'll shut you down and take all your jobs". THEN he left of his own accord.
9) Extensive questioning of all employees and customers was conducted.
10) We tried to be professional and keep the story to ourselves, but we had no idea it was just the tip of the iceberg.
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Clearly, this demonstrates a pattern of volatile behavior. I have read the police report, and if you pay attention to the above article, it outlines THREE seperate instances of domestic abuse. One he was convicted for in 1993, and TWO reported by Ginny in 1997. "...had committed a similar, previous act of violence against the same woman in an unreported event prior to 1997."
No one is perfect, but I believe we should hold our elected officials to a higher standard. They should represent the best in us not worst. Alan should spare his family, do the right thing, step down, and seek help.
As you can see, I have posted my full name and take full responsibility for these comments. I would press others who feel it so easy to include a laundry list of names, conspiracies, and accusations to do the same.
Posted by: Adam Higgins | October 09, 2007 at 04:50 PM
First of all, Jeff why did you feel compelled to state that the person making the comment in the bar was Mexican-come on. Why does that matter?
I have always said that Alan Gilbert makes my skin crawl. I didn't know why...but now it is apparent. Got to trust those instincts
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 09:46 PM
It's clear that numerous parties (i.e., "DEVELOPERS") to these comments *think* they have a financial benefit if their commercial developments are approved built. Or, if said DEVELOPERS (who mistimed the market) can sell their "white elephants" that already have been built.
Said DEVELOPERS think that if they "trash" Gilbert and he no longer can represent "the little guy", said DEVELOPERS will be better off financially.
No further comment is warranted.
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 10:07 PM
I have had a problem with Alan Gilbert ever since he somehow pushed a skate park through our local officials. This is now a major strain on our city employees and will eventually cost the tax payers 2X the original cost of that waste of money. It just so happens that he is personal friends with the developer(KICK BACK!!!). I had no idea unitl a few days ago this scumbag had a PERMANANT CRIMINAL RECORD!!!!HE SHOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN ALLOWED TO RUN!!!!!!!
I am a car salesman and and a CB resident for 9 yrs. In order for me to sell cars I had to pass a credit check, background check, and drug check. Yet we allow a CONVICTED WIFE BEATER to represent what I consider home???? If you can sleep at night supporting this type of person then I feel for you. As for the rest of the citizens of CB lets tand up, kick this asshole over the bridge get back to where we were a few years ago and get this island back on track.
I CAN ASSURE YOU A CONVICTED WIFE BEATER DOES NOT HAVE (Y)OUR BEST INTERESTS IN MIND.
FOLLOW THE MONEY...........THAT WILL TELL YOU WHAT HE CARES ABOUT
Posted by: KV | October 09, 2007 at 11:08 PM
hey "said developer" you have no clue. as for the little guy "short is short" you know what i mean "shorty".
Posted by: | October 09, 2007 at 11:22 PM
I whole heartedly agree with the person who wrote the following:
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It's clear that numerous parties (i.e., "DEVELOPERS") to these comments *think* they have a financial benefit if their commercial developments are approved built. Or, if said DEVELOPERS (who mistimed the market) can sell their "white elephants" that already have been built.
Said DEVELOPERS think that if they "trash" Gilbert and he no longer can represent "the little guy", said DEVELOPERS will be better off financially.
No further comment is warranted.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 09:41 AM
For the above:
Do you have a thought of your own?
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 10:45 AM
Regarding "Kickback!!!", it is my understanding there is a relationship between Alan and the skateboard park developer. As such, there was a kickback involved...a kickback to the town. The skate park is twice the size at half the cost.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 10:53 AM
Did the town have the $200k for the skate park, or was it running a deficit already? If the latter is true, half price, full price, kickback or no, that's financial mismanagement. It was logistically mismanaged as well, since no staffing was ever considered. Allowing skaters to run the park has created the situation its in now. Didn't a cop get spit on a few weeks ago, forcing an arrest? Alan was present then as well.
Posted by: Adam Higgins | October 10, 2007 at 11:29 AM
I too, agree with the below. I wonder if Mr. Higgins classifies himself as a developer?
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It's clear that numerous parties (i.e., "DEVELOPERS") to these comments *think* they have a financial benefit if their commercial developments are approved/built. Or, if said DEVELOPERS (who mistimed the market) can sell their "white elephants" that already have been built.
Said DEVELOPERS think that if they "trash" Gilbert and he no longer can represent "the little guy", said DEVELOPERS will be better off financially.
No further comment is warranted.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 11:40 AM
for the comment above, you seem to know alot about "DEVELOPERS" IF SO WHY DON'T YOU LET THE PEOPLE KNOW WHO YOU ARE. at that point we can make a dicission on whether you know what you are talking about. don't talk the talk if you will not walk the walk.
Posted by: JOE B. | October 10, 2007 at 01:09 PM
The skatepark has been an issue since it was built. Staff tried to manage it...but it was pointless. One staff member against 40 skateboarders...doesn't work to the staffs' advantage. One employee(female), even had someone spit in her face. If Allen Gilbert is so gung -ho about this park....why doesn't he man it himself.I have been there on several occasions andher him tell skaters they didn't "really" need to wear safety equipment. Now....which age group/genre is he trying to buddy up with??
If he thought tht building thispark would put him in the good graces of the 18-35 age group...spectaular job. Look what a mess he has created though.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 07:06 PM
this blog has nothing to do with his ties to developers. it has to do with the fact that his wife had to call the authorities because she was scared of her own husband and had to have him physically removed from the property. that is the point. he does not deserve the honor to be a public official.
Posted by: KV | October 10, 2007 at 07:22 PM
(From a guy with "fundamental" issues about this situation.)
Check out this website.
http://sidcauseyforsheriff.blogspot.com/2002_10_13_archive.html
That bit of history adds some perspective that Marc and Tre Benson should remember.
You be the judge.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 09:04 PM
Why has this become an issue about developers. Why is it these said "developers" fault that Alan Gilbert's record has a come out. Did they twist the radio stations arm, or maybe pay them a "kick back" to air Gilbert's durty laundry-give me a break-talk about conspiricy theories. I think someone is trying to cloud the issue and take some heat off of themselves. I think a major problem with our society is that people do not take responsibility for themselves-blame it on everyone else. Last time I checked we live in a democratic society-remember "free enterprise", so what is the crime with development. On the other do we really need people with questionable moral backgrounds, poor judgement and poor impulse control in a governmental possition. No ofense, just calling it like I see it, no coming out smelling like a rose in this case, it is what it is, very sad!
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 09:36 PM
I believe it's all about the developers!!!! Whoever wrote this knows what there are talking about:
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It's clear that numerous parties (i.e., "DEVELOPERS") to these comments *think* they have a financial benefit if their commercial developments are approved/built. Or, if said DEVELOPERS (who mistimed the market) can sell their "white elephants" that already have been built.
Said DEVELOPERS think that if they "trash" Gilbert and he no longer can represent "the little guy", said DEVELOPERS will be better off financially.
No further comment is warranted.
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 09:47 PM
Your right, I do know what I am talking about. I do not think that the issue of Alan Gilbert's record has anything to do with development or developers. Being for or against development is not the issue. I think that some people would like to take the spot lite off Alan Gilbert and his record and are using the same old sorry argument that it is someone else's fault. Where these "developers" in the room when Alan Gilbert commited the crime? On the other hand Lets be honest, our town could use a little "development", and I am not talking about duplexes (unless someone wants one-again, it is a free country). And speaking of free country what would be the harm in mixed use development, improvment of our sewer systems, more green space, viable shops and restuarants. How about a grogery, one that sells organic produce (call me crazy), bike paths, safe walkways etc. I would love not to drive across the bridge everytime I needed something, walk to the store, save on gas, cut down on trafic and cut down on green house admissions well I was at it, (again, call me crazy). I would like to invest my money in my own community rather than in Willmington, support local business owners. Build and have a community to be proud of, not one with closed down businesses, few dinning options and delapitated buildings...a good community for families
Posted by: | October 10, 2007 at 10:11 PM
It is unfortunate that Mr. Gilbert's past has been brought to light. I don't know Mr. Gilbert, or anyone else running for office at Carolina Beach. I can assure everyone that this report of our check into the candidates criminal background has absolutely no prejudice or bias against any one individual or any political affiliation. I am on record in many published journals and newspapers my own political slant and should anyone wish to question any motive of mine in my report PLEASE look into previous publications and reports.
The above link to a website or blog that was mentioned has nothing to do with this report. That site was written by a resident of Carolina Beach who has since passed away. We discovered the author soon after the information was first made public. We used his sources and spoke with authorities in Tampa and have found the allegations concerning Sid Causey and Gene Pulley and the attempt to take money from a drug dealer to be true.
I do my best not to censor any comments. I would suggest that if anyone has issue with a particular post that they post your response and not email me because I won't do anything about it.
This site is not the Holy word of God and you should remind yourself that when and if you become upset. Hopefully everyone understands that about the internet. It is usually just talk.
But one thing is true, we verified everything we stated. I even spoke with Mr. Gilbert prior to making this public. He told me his wife of 13 years stands behind him in full support. He also said he had hoped that his record serving on Council would overshadow his violent past. After all, he reminded me, this happened 10 years ago.
But come on where is all the outrage about a rubber check dribbler running for office in Wrightsville Beach? All of you can't be from Carolina Beach. I had no idea so many of you Carolina Beach folk had functional internet connections. Charter cable is the worst! The next candidate who says he will do away with Charter gets my support.
Posted by: Tre Benson | October 10, 2007 at 10:21 PM
I appreciate Mr. Benson and his clarification. The skate park and "Developer" issues are just smoke and mirrors for the real issue at hand.
I think it is pretty funny that first of all Gilbert stated he has been married for 13 years...I think NOT (this is NOT what a legal Police Report states). If he would lie about a little thing like this who knows what this manipulators limit would be!
Secondly I think the radio station was pretty lenient in not mentioning the police report in its entirety. As a parent the fact that Mr. Gilbert was ripping his then infant child out of his GIRLFRIENDS (the childs mother) arms while the domestic was happening is the WORST part. It was one thing for him to treat another adult in such a manner but lets not forget a baby was also involved.
On the issue about "It was 10 years ago"...well I have underwear older than that...trust me 10 years is NOT a long time.
Lastly...this was NOT just a one time thing. The police reports (PLURAL)just might be showing us a pattern.
Posted by: TAMMY | October 11, 2007 at 08:49 AM
Underwear older than 10 years...now that's REPULSIVE !!!!!!!! Tammy, are you sure your not jealous of the Gilbert clan because Jenny wears new underwear and her husband has been elected (by the voters) to public office?
Maybe it's time to clean up the stench... change your underwear and your wealthy husband's underwear.
Posted by: A friend of Jack L. | October 11, 2007 at 10:16 AM
Friend of Jack L., you seem to have quite an interst in underwear. Dirty and otherwise. Please, tell me more about the varieties you have discovered.
Posted by: | October 11, 2007 at 03:34 PM
For all of you who believe the "developers" are the cause of Alan Gilbert's problems, let me set this straight. I was the one who tried last Tuesday night to bring this up in front of Town Council and the mayor refused to let me speak. I thought it was a PUBLIC FORUM and that I had five minutes. Apparently not. I have copies of the paperwork. I have a copy of the disposition of the court in Wake county, dated Nov. 1993 with a guilty verdict against Alan Gilbert for Assault On A Female. I also have a copy of the Protective Order, dated April 1997 that was taken out by Alan's then girlfriend. In her own handwriting, she states that Alan tore the phone from the wall and grabbed the baby from her arms. Somehow, she got in touch with Alan's SISTER, who called the police. One question on the Protective Order form was, "When was the last act of violence?" She answered by writing April 1995. Apparently, Alan has a problem with the month of April. So, what we have here folks are three SEPARATE incidents, that we know of, involving TWO SEPARATE women. I know he's trying to make it sound like an isolated incident that happened ten years ago, but that is not the case. Trying to use the excuse of being "young, having low income and being a new parent" is insulting, to say the least. I know a lot of people think my motives are political, as my husband is the campaign manager for another candidate for mayor. My motives stem from having been an abused wife for 23 1/2 years. Our elected officials represent US. Alan's anger problems are not just limited to his wife. He's displayed that around town quite a few times. A DUI---not good, but it happens. A big argument with the wife that got out of hand---again, not good, but it happens. THREE SEPERATE REPORTED INCIDENTS INVOLVING TWO DIFFERENT WOMEN----come on, people. It this who you want representing you? I am not afraid to put my name to this.
Susan Underwood
Posted by: Susan Underwood | October 11, 2007 at 06:36 PM
Susan, you want to apply your alleged horrible experience to others (based on a police report). You weren't there, they weren't there. Your motive may be to fight for others because you failed to fight for yourself (for 23 1/2/ years). Or your motive may be to "tar & feather" a guy based on YOUR political agenda. Quite frankly, I don't think you even know if it's one or both motives/reasons. Your not even being truthful to yourself.
Posted by: A friend of Jack L. | October 11, 2007 at 08:18 PM
Tre Benson.
Did you contact anyone in Carolina Beach about a man named Alan Gilbert prior to airing Gilbert's background information on the radio on October 6th, 2007?
Posted by: | October 11, 2007 at 09:50 PM
I am confused, if his wife of 13 years stands "behind" him-not beside him, then who was the girlfriend ten years ago?
Posted by: | October 11, 2007 at 09:51 PM