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September 27, 2007

GAY BASHING & LIL WAYNE

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What the hell is wrong with people?

Back in April Ron Tettaway tells a guy in an Atlanta bar that the guy reminded him of Lil Wayne. He might as well said the dude reminded him of a pile of shit. Needless to say those were fighting words and the kick ass drug out into the streets where the police came to break it up. Well, tough guy (and he really was) didn't want to stop and the cops shot and killed him where he stood. Brother Roy Pettaway saw what went down and ran over to take up where his brother ended and he got shot as well, but he faired better and lived.

The other night in Wilmington, members from two separate groups in the same neighborhood were outside at the same time. One group was white, one black. One of the white guys says something to one of the black guys one thing or another about "Lil Wayne" and all hell breaks loose. Twenty year old white kid Sam Flinn takes a punch to the jaw and dies.

What is it about Lil Wayne that causes punches to be thrown and people to die?

Lil Wayne the rapper is rumored to be gay.

FEVER PITCHED

Blogsites in Wilmington are going mad over the recent death of ECU student Sam Flinn who was punched and killed by a UNCW senior when Flinn's friend Doug Reece shouted an insult towards 3 young African Americans who were outside a neighbor's townhouse at 5006 Carleton Place. (see bluelineradio.com for the who's who of landlords)

Almost immediately controversial postings went up on the local internet blogsites.

The Star News was hit with a post reporting the owner of the townhome located at the address listed in reports as to the location of the fight. In an email from the Star News poster, Preacherman, to the Blue Line Radio, the Preacherman said he had posted what he did because the subject of the post lived at the address and that the occupant, Lenwood "Bo" Dean not only works for UNCW but also hold two positions with the City of Wilmington, Parks & Recreation and the Wilmington Housing Authority. (Preacherman makes a good point in his email regarding the lack of oversight of the rampant crime facing some of our public housing developments and local upscale developments such as Carleton Place which Mr. Dean sits on the board of both places) It was immediately after the post was uploaded onto the Star News site, that the newspaper received a threat from Mr. Dean and the post was removed. Several of those following this particular blog have been in constant argument since regarding the validity of a poster's right to post anything they want as long as it has merit. But does it have merit?

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As the Star News has their blogsite so does WWAY-TV. WWAY's site is different in many ways. More out of control, personal attacks, profanity and racism.

One post regarding this death was posted by someone purporting to be an Aryan Nationalist, whatever that is. Threats of revenge against a black killing a white and chastising "self-loating whites", calling Wilmington an "anti-White City."

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Mostly there have been rumors and misinformation regarding this death. The District Attorney Ben David and Chief of Police Ralph Evangelous both hoped the rumors would quiet down now that the situation was explained to the media.

The biggest misinformation did not come from a blogsite but from the UNCW mass email machine informing students, faculty and anyone else that would listen that this was simply an "altercation" between students.

The next biggest misinformation came from the Medical Examiner's Office, when he said the death was caused by a common phenomenon. Apparently when a drunk gets hit in the jaw he dies ... if Mike Tyson hits him.

Sometimes you can't rely on instant media for news. Blogs are great to ramble on and inflame a fire but nothing beats a good gathering at the fence with your neighbor to learn the "facts"... wait that's exactly like a blogsite. Gossip. Innuendoes, half truths and detractors. But sometimes a lot of genius comes from bloggers.

And look who's talking now, me, blogging to you.

Take two grains of salt and email me in the morning.


September 26, 2007

She was 12


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'A pure angel' is laid to rest

Bill Kirby


Emily Elizabeth Haddock was your typical little girl.

Her dark eyes danced.

Her brown locks were soft and long.

She was 12.

“She was a ‘Daddy’s Girl,’” says Kenny Decker, a family friend who choked back tears.

She had such fun just 10 days ago at the local speedway, watching the cars go round, and just being with her daddy.

It hasn’t been so long ago that Jeff Haddock, her father, built a deck on the family home in Moore County.

She was daddy’s little helper.

She was a “Daddy’s Girl.”

She was 12.

“She was just a pure angel,” Decker says. “Everybody would love to have a daughter like her.”

On Tuesday, Jeff Haddock, 44, said goodbye to his little girl — the apple of his eye. Joy Scott, 43, said goodbye to a daughter — the light of her life.

Nearly 400 mourners — from Mount Pleasant to Hope Mills — filed into the First Baptist Church sanctuary and its adjacent fellowship hall in Hope Mills to be by this family’s side.
A child’s dreams

Emily Elizabeth Haddock was full of life.

She always had a smile.

Once she came to know you, she was quick to smile that smile like only she could, then throws her arms tightly around your neck.

She was 12.

She didn’t have a favorite color.

She loved every hue.

She liked the red flip-flops as much as the green sandals and the blue ones near the foot of her bed.

She didn’t have a favorite teddy bear that adorned her bedroom. She loved ’em all.

She was 12.

She liked making new friends at New Century Middle School, where the flag flew at half staff Tuesday for this classmate who looked so forward to the volleyball season.

She liked playing basketball, and it took both hands to show off the trophies as testimony of her skills.

She was crazy about Ginger, her brown dachshund. She loved Pooch, her pit bull, just as much.

She liked to swim.

She liked to sing karaoke.

She liked to wear her hair in a ponytail.

She was 12.

She loved attending First Baptist Church in Hope Mills and throwing her arms around the neck of the Rev. Mike Sowers, her “Preacher Mike.”

“She came into my office one day and wanted to know the story behind everything on my bookshelf,” a tearful Sowers told the congregation. “I say Emily knew more about me than anyone in this church. She not only loved people. She wanted to know people.”

She liked Sunday school.

She liked vacation Bible school.

“She had so much energy,” Nancy Jackson, a Sunday school teacher, says. “She was like a little butterfly.”

She was 12.

She had dreams.

She looked forward to being a teenager and having sleep-overs with her girlfriends and talking about the dreamiest boy in school.

She would one day look forward to high school, her first date, her first prom, a class ring, graduation, college years, marriage ... and someday children of her own.

She was your typical girl.

She was 12.
‘Not the hand of God’

Tuesday, a father, a mother, a brother, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends and communities were broken-hearted as Emily Elizabeth Haddock was buried in the family cemetery.

Her life was taken Sept. 21 in her Moore County home by intruders who never gave a second thought to this child’s love of life or her dreams or the rays of sunshine she brought to so many.

She was 12.

“What was stolen away from Jeff and Joy was their daughter,” the Rev. Jim Everette told the congregation, “and their lives will never be the same. They say God has a purpose for everything. This was not the hand of God. What happened Friday was evil, and I believe God will concur.”

There is no rhyme.

There is no reason.

There is no excuse for taking the life of an innocent child.

She was 12.
‘Everything to me’

Emily Elizabeth Haddock was buried in an aqua dress with a brown lace V-neck and brown polka dots. A horse charm dangled from the necklace around her neck. A bracelet, with another horse charm, adorned her tiny wrist.

“She loved horses,” Kenny Decker says. “She was supposed to get a horse this Christmas.”

The dress was a gift.

A birthday present just this past Sept. 5.

She turned 12.

Emily Elizabeth Haddock was your typical little girl.

Her dark eyes danced.

Her brown locks were soft and long.

“She was everything to me,” her father says. “My little baby.”

She was, all will tell you, a splendid and adorable child with an infectious personality that could win your heart.

She was 12.

Now, bless her innocent heart, safe, secure and forever back in God’s great hands.

Bill Kirby can be reached at kirbyb@fayobserver.com or 323-4848, ext. 486.

September 13, 2007

REASON TO DO YOUR JOB CORRECTLY

A car-mounted video camera — more commonly used by police than against them — captured a loud and threatening confrontation in this tiny St. Louis County community that left an officer on suspension and the whole world able to listen in.

The picture doesn't show much, but the audio part of the recording, posted on Google Video and YouTube on the Internet, brought more than 300 protest calls to St. George Police Chief Scott Uhrig.

"I was very displeased when I saw the actions on the video," Uhrig said. "My officers are not trained and taught to act like that."

He put Sgt. James Kuehnlein on unpaid suspension pending further investigation.

All good cops feel their hair stand on end when they see a video like this. There is nothing worse than someone abusing their authority. As we have shown in prior articles and investigations there is absolutely nothing worse than someone sworn to uphold the law abusing that authority. These sort of events stain the good men and women of law enforcement with the rotten smell of a bad cop. There is nothing worse. There are no excuses. Shame on all of them.

But the positive side of this is that people are out there, with cameras, witnesses etc that will bring these shameful acts to light. Since there are over 100,000 officers on the street every day the percentage of bad is microscopic.

To all those who serve the public with pride and with professional ethics, we salute you!